
Today's the day. After months of building, testing, and obsessing over every detail — Cray is officially live nationwide, available on iOS and Android.
If you're new here: Cray is a first-of-its-kind dating safety app built to help you identify red flags and scheming behavior before they become emotionally or financially devastating. Not after the damage is done. Before.
Cray distills more than 70 red flags across 18 relationship categories — from manipulation and emotional avoidance to financial deception and love bombing — into guided assessments you complete privately on your own device. From there, you get two scores:
CrayScore™ measures overall relationship risk — a structured read on the patterns you might be explaining away.
SchemerScore™ flags behaviors tied to ulterior motives: money, sex, or control.
Along the way, the app teaches you why each behavior matters — because a red flag you understand is a red flag you'll recognize next time, with anyone.
This matters to us: Cray is not a review app. Nothing you enter is shared, posted, or made public. Every insight is personal and private. Other platforms let people rate and expose each other; we think that creates as many problems as it solves. Cray points the lens where it actually helps — at your own awareness.
Dating apps have made it easier than ever to meet people — and easier than ever to get blindsided. Everyone knows someone with a story: the charmer who wasn't who they said they were, the whirlwind that turned controlling, the relationship that quietly drained a bank account. Cray exists so fewer of those stories get written. (The longer version of why our founder built this is a story of its own — read it here.)
We built Cray with a mix of psychology, humor, and data — because safety education only works if people actually want to use it. Protecting your heart shouldn't cost you your optimism about love.
Cray is available now on the App Store and Google Play, with core reports completely free. Download it, run your first CrayScore, and start seeing patterns instead of just vibes.
This is day one. We can't wait to show you what's next.
Vibes Lie. Patterns Don't.
— The Cray Team