A weekly short where the red flag is painfully, cartoonishly obvious. Because in real life, it never is.
One red flag, played all the way up. Would you have caught the quiet version?
Why we made it this obvious
Every red flag is obvious in hindsight. That's the problem. In the moment there's charm, chemistry, a good excuse, and a very strong desire for this one to work out, and the exact same behavior that would make you scream at a screen barely registers when it's happening to you.
So each episode takes one real red flag and turns the volume all the way up. You'll see it instantly. The point is to remember the loud version next time you meet the quiet one.
And when quiet is all you've got, that's what the app is for. A CrayScore™ turns the version you can't quite name into patterns you can see, across 74 research-backed red flags, and a SchemerScore™ catches the ulterior-motive kind.
Prove it. Red Flag or Nah? is 53 real scenarios with none of the cartoon volume. Make the call, then argue about it with your friends. It's also a ready-to-run format for orientation, RA programs, and chapter meetings.
Three free scores. Private by design. The patterns guy approves.
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