Free Resource · Dating Safety Events
Host a dating safety event. You could change someone's future.
Unhealthy relationships rarely start with obvious warning signs — they start with patterns. One conversation can teach someone to spot them sooner. Our free Event Hosting Guide gives you everything: the plan, the activities, the words. You bring the room.
Download the Free Event Hosting GuideFREE TO USE • NO APPROVAL NEEDED • ANYONE CAN HOST
THE GUIDE
The Dating Safety Event Hosting Guide
A complete, print-ready playbook for running your own independent Cray event — in a residence hall, chapter house, club meeting, workplace, or living room. No certification. No expertise. No permission needed.
Download the Guide (Free PDF)Free forever. Print it, share it, host with it.
Three ready-to-run formats — a 20-Minute Express, a 45-Minute Standard, and a 60-Minute Workshop, each with a minute-by-minute plan
Three field-tested experiences — Red Flag or Green Flag?, The Mirror, and Spot the Scheme, with scenarios, scripts, and answer keys
Creating the right environment — four ground rules, host notes, and support resources that keep the room safe and kind
Answers to the questions you'll get — what Cray measures, how privacy works, and why scoring behavior isn't judgment
Make It Yours — ways to personalize your event, plus a letter from our founder
Who becomes a Cray Event Host?
People like you. Really — that's the whole list.
RAs & Residence Life
A floor program people actually show up to — and talk about after.
Clubs & Greek Life
A chapter or club event that's part game night, part real talk.
Peer Educators
Orientation leaders, wellness ambassadors, and mentors with a room to fill.
Friends & Communities
A living room, a workplace, a youth group — anywhere the conversation matters.
Hosting is easier than you think
Pick a format
20, 45, or 60 minutes. Book a space — a lounge, a classroom, a backyard. Invite people the fun way: “Red Flag or Green Flag? Come find out.”
Run the experiences
The guide carries the content: scenarios, discussion prompts, and the Spot the Scheme game. Everyone runs a free, private Cray assessment along the way.
Keep it going
Share photos and tag @cray.app, challenge friends to one honest pattern conversation, and put your next event on the calendar.
The host hub is growing
This page is the home for everything hosts need — bookmark it (or keep the QR code from your printed guide handy).
Hosting Guide
The complete event playbook, updated as we learn from hosts.
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Social Media Kit
Nine ready-to-post graphics that carry your event from announcement to thank-you — grab them below.
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Presentation Slides
A ready-to-present deck that follows the guide's formats.
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New Experiences
Fresh scenarios and activities, added as hosts share what works.
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Print Posters
Print-ready posters for residence halls and campus boards.
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Hosted an event? Tell us how it went: hello@cray.app
Support resources for every event
Cray events are educational, not clinical. Every host should keep these on hand — and add their local campus or community resources.
Love is Respect (dating abuse, ages 13–26): 1-866-331-9474 · text LOVEIS to 22522 · loveisrespect.org
National Domestic Violence Hotline: 1-800-799-7233 · thehotline.org
RAINN National Sexual Assault Hotline: 1-800-656-4673 · rainn.org
988 Suicide & Crisis Lifeline: call or text 988
If anyone is in immediate danger, call 911. Cray provides educational information, not medical, psychological, or legal advice.
Bringing Cray to a whole campus?
Universities get our free Campus Launch Kit — a launch guide, 36 weeks of programming, posters, and graphics — at the no-cost Campus Ally tier.
The Event Social Kit
Four phases, nine graphics — announce your event, build it up, post on event day, and say thanks. Download the full-size files below and post them straight to your accounts.
PHASE 1 · ANNOUNCE IT
Announcement A ↓Announcement B ↓PHASE 2 · BUILD IT UP
What to Expect A ↓What to Expect B ↓Red or Green teaser (optional) ↓PHASE 3 · EVENT DAY
Event Day A ↓Event Day B ↓PHASE 4 · SAY THANKS
Thank You A ↓Thank You B ↓