The Game
The party game that's secretly a safety skill. Read a scenario, make the call, argue about it — because the arguing is the point. Play a round from the full deck below, then grab the printable 53-scenario handout free.
The Deck
Every round deals six scenarios at random from the complete deck — the exact same cards as the printed facilitator guide: red flags, yellow "it depends" flags built to start arguments, and a couple of genuine green flags, exactly like real life. Finish a round and deal again for new cards.
The verdicts matter less than the fact that you now have language for the call. That's the whole skill — and the printable handout adds the facilitator structure, the score-weight cues, and the Top 10 Green Flags.
Get the handout free ↓ Deal 6 new cards ↻The Handout
Every scenario from the deck above across four arenas of student life — dating, roommates, friendships, and classmates — plus facilitation steps, CrayScore weight cues, and the Top 10 Green Flags, because knowing what good looks like is half the skill. Print it, deal them out, let the room argue.
Free PDF · print-ready · no email required
How to Run It
Deal a card, read it out loud, vote, argue. The debate is the game.
A ready-made hour — pair it with the free hosting formats in the event guide.
Built for sororities and fraternities that want safety programming people actually enjoy.
No printer? Project this page — the deck deals random six-card rounds live, on the spot.
Go Deeper
The free hosting guide has 20, 45, and 60-minute formats anyone can run — Red Flag or Nah? is one of its core experiences.
Get the hosting guide →Free printable safety flyers for residence halls and student housing — mailboxes, boards, and stalls.
See the flyers →The free Cray app is this game, applied to your actual life — CrayScore™ reads red flags, SchemerScore™ catches manipulation, BaeScore™ measures the green.
Get the app free →Questions People Ask
Yes — download it, print as many copies as you want, run as many games as you want. No email gate, no catch.
Yes — that's exactly what the on-page deck is for. Project this page, deal six random cards, let the room vote and argue, then hit "Deal 6 new cards ↻" for the next group. Every deal pulls from the same 53 scenarios as the printed handout, so your on-screen game and your printed cards always match.
No. The game stands completely on its own. The app is where the skill goes after the party — but the cards work with nothing but a screen (or a printer) and opinions.
Absolutely — RAs, orientation teams, wellness offices, and Greek chapters run it as programming all the time. The free hosting guide adds structure if you want it, and campus partners get full event facilitation support.
The same research-grounded behavior patterns behind CrayScore™ and SchemerScore™ — written as moments students actually recognize, deliberately including the ambiguous ones, because real life doesn't label itself.
Somewhere between the laughing and the arguing, someone recognizes a pattern from their own life. That's the game working.