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A Red Flag Academy production

Red Flag Rock

Every red flag gets a song. Every song gets a music video. Each track takes one manipulation tactic and turns it into something you cannot get out of your head. Learn the term. Spot the pattern. Sing along.

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Track 01 · It Was You the Whole Time (DARVO) · Vertical · Open on YouTube

Out now · The first single

It Was You the Whole Time

Deny. Attack. Reverse Victim and Offender.

DARVO is the oldest trick in the book, and now it has a theme song. Meet Kip, the guy who somehow makes everything your fault, and then wants an apology for it.

About two minutes. Fully animated. Painfully familiar.

Watch the videoWhat is DARVO?
DARVO  ●  Love Bombing  ●  Ghosting  ●  Gaslighting  ●  Catfishing  ●  Situationship  ●  and many more

The album

One song for every red flag

A full cast of characters, a different sound on every track, and zero lectures. Fourteen are written so far, and the list keeps growing.

01
It Was You the Whole Time
DARVO. Kip would like you to know this is all your fault.
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02
Act Now!
Love bombing, sold to you like a late-night infomercial.
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03
Three Dots, Then Nothing
A ghosting ballad. Wanted: one coyote, last seen typing.
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04
Most Considerate Guy in the Room
Boundaries, as understood by a man who has never respected one.
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05
The Camera's Always Broken
Catfishing. Performed, naturally, by raccoons.
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06
Who's Dave?
Jealousy, in three-part harmony.
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07
Property Of
Possessiveness. Rockabilly, and a label maker that will not stop.
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08
That Never Happened
Gaslighting. The captions rewrite themselves while you watch.
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09
What Are We?
Situationship. A song with no label about a relationship with no label.
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10
Just Enough
Breadcrumbing. Doo-wop, slot-machine dings, and pigeons who keep coming back.
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11
Stay Loose, Stay Warm
Benching. A pep talk for the dugout nobody ever gets called up from.
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12
Pretty, for You
Negging. A compliment with a hook in it.
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13
Every Crisis Is a Stage
Attention-seeking behavior. A Broadway showstopper with a key change every emergency.
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14
One Life Raft
Codependency. A duet where neither otter gets a verse of their own.
Coming soon
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Plus many more. Every red flag in the glossary is fair game, and the glossary is long.
1 flag = 1 song

Vibes lie. Patterns don't. Most people only learn the names for manipulation tactics after they have lived through them. Red Flag Rock puts the vocabulary where it sticks: in a chorus.

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