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Safety programming your chapter will actually enjoy.

Ready-to-run, research-grounded, and free β€” from a five-minute icebreaker to a full sisterhood event. Fill your programming requirement with the meeting people ask to do again.

πŸ› Built for chaptersπŸ†“ Free foreverπŸ“‹ Counts as programmingπŸ”’ Private β€” zero chapter drama

The Chapter Meeting Problem

Required programming doesn't have to feel required

Every chapter carries the same mandate: risk management hours, member education, wellness programming. And every risk manager knows the look the room gives a slideshow about making good choices. Here's the fix nobody expects: make the safety skill a game. Reading red flags is genuinely fun to argue about β€” which is exactly how a room full of members ends up practicing the most protective skill they'll ever learn without noticing they're in a program.

THE WHOLE PITCH

One flag is a conversation. A pattern is an answer.

Teach a chapter to see patterns and every member becomes safer β€” and so does everyone they look out for.

Run It Tonight

Three free things a chair can grab right now

THE GAME

Red Flag or Nah?

53 real scenarios across dating, roommate, friendship, and classmate life β€” deal them out, vote, argue. Playable online, plus a free printable facilitator guide. The easiest great chapter meeting you'll ever run.

Play it & get the guide β†’
THE EVENT

The Event Hosting Guide

The complete playbook for a full sisterhood or brotherhood night β€” scripted 20, 45, and 60-minute formats with ground rules, experiences, and wrap-ups included. Print it and run it this week.

Download the Guide ↓(Free PDF)Browse the full event hub β†’
THE SKILL

The free Cray app

Where the game becomes real life: CrayScoreβ„’ reads red flags, SchemerScoreβ„’ catches manipulation, BaeScoreβ„’ measures the green. Free forever, for every member.

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Made for Greek Moments

Where it fits your calendar

🌟 New member education

First-semester members are meeting everyone at once β€” the exact window the pattern-reading skill matters most. One game night during new member education covers it.

πŸ“‹ Risk management hours

If you're the risk manager, this is the easiest programming credit you'll file all year β€” research-grounded content, ready-made formats, actual engagement.

❀️ Sisterhood & brotherhood

Looking out for each other is the whole point of a chapter. This gives "tell me if you get a weird vibe" a shared language.

πŸ‘— Before formals & date parties

The pre-formal group chat already vets the dates. Now it can do it with more than vibes β€” privately, before the invites go out.

🎭 Mixers & socials

New people, new numbers, new matches. The app's checks work the same night they're needed.

πŸ› Panhellenic & IFC

Councils can run it campus-wide β€” one Red Flag or Nah night across chapters is a Greek Week event that actually matters.

Why Chapters Trust It

Private means no chapter drama

Nothing anyone does in Cray is posted, shared, or visible to anyone else β€” not to the chapter, not to an exec board, not to us. Nobody gets notified when someone runs a score, and the app even blocks screenshots. That matters in a chapter more than anywhere: members can actually use it about the people in their lives β€” including each other's dates β€” without it ever becoming gossip material. There are no leaderboards, no shared results, and no way to make it a surveillance tool. It's a judgment tool, one member at a time.

Questions Chairs Ask

The fine print (there isn't much)

Does this count toward our required programming hours?

It's built to β€” research-grounded educational content on relationship safety, with structured formats and a facilitator guide. Criteria vary by council and national organization, so check yours, but chapters run it as risk management, member education, and wellness programming.

Do we need approval from nationals or our university?

It's free educational programming, and the hosting guide is written for independently organized events β€” most chapters just run it. If your campus wants Cray officially, that's what the free Campus Ally tier is for: see campus partnerships.

Is this just for sororities?

No β€” fraternities run it too, and honestly should: reading manipulation and coercion patterns protects everyone, and brotherhood programming that isn't a lecture is just as rare. Councils can run it across the whole community.

What does it cost the chapter?

Nothing. The game, the facilitator guide, the hosting guide, and the core app are all free forever. A few deeper checks in the app are one-time purchases under $8 that individual members choose β€” there's never a chapter bill and never a subscription.

Can members' scores be seen by the chapter?

No β€” by design, and this is worth saying in the meeting: everything in Cray is private to the individual member. No shared results, no exec visibility, nothing. It cannot be turned into a chapter monitoring tool, which is exactly why members will actually use it.

When's the best time to run it?

New member education is the highest-impact window β€” new members are meeting more strangers per week than they ever will again. Second best: the meeting right before formal season.

How do we start β€” like, tonight?

Open Red Flag or Nah? on a screen, play the warm-up round out loud, download the hosting guide, and put the full version on next week's agenda. That's genuinely the whole onboarding.

Make the next chapter meeting the one they remember.

Deal the cards, let the room argue, and send every member home with a sharper eye. That's programming worth the hour.

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