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BaeScore™, Explained · New in 2.4
A BaeScore™ measures what's going right. It scores 36 research-grounded green flags — observable healthy behaviors across 6 categories — to answer the question red flags can't: is this relationship actually good for you? The higher the score, the healthier the pattern.
The Basics
Because the absence of bad isn't the presence of good. A relationship can be free of red flags and still be empty of effort, repair, and care. And people healing from unhealthy relationships often can't trust their own read on a healthy one — calm can feel boring, and kindness can feel suspicious, when chaos was your normal. BaeScore™ gives you a structured look at the behaviors that actually make relationships work, using the same severity-and-frequency approach as CrayScore™ — pointed at the good stuff.
THE CORE IDEA
You can feel where you rank in someone's life by what they do when nothing is being asked of them.
BaeScore™ turns that feeling into something you can actually see — 36 specific behaviors, scored from what you've observed.
Under the Hood
Sincere apology, personal responsibility, feedback receptiveness, self-reflection, behavior change, personal growth — growth as a track record, not a promise.
Open communication, listening, directness, conflict de-escalation, conflict resolution, repair attempts — not the absence of conflict; the presence of repair.
Consistency, follow-through, initiative, appreciation, priority, shared experiences — what they do when nothing is being asked of them.
Empathy, emotional awareness, emotional validation, behavioral care, support during stress, feeling understood — which is different from feeling tolerated.
Emotional stability, proportional response, jealousy management, boundary respect, psychological safety — you never brace before sharing news.
Equal partnership, independence, non-control, support for goals, healthy outside balance, respect during conflict — disagreement never costs you dignity.
Honest Limits
CrayScore™ measures risk; BaeScore™ measures health. Together they give you the whole picture instead of half of one.
A high BaeScore™ doesn't cancel red flags — charm and effort can coexist with control. Run both scores and read them together.
If healthy has started to feel foreign, 36 concrete behaviors give you a reference point that isn't your last relationship.
Yes — BaeScore™ is free, like CrayScore™ and SchemerScore™, on iOS, Android, and the web.
They're complements: CrayScore™ scores 74 red flags to measure relationship risk; BaeScore™ scores 36 green flags to measure relationship health. The full picture is both.
Never. Nothing is posted, shared, or sent — it's a private, structured read on your own observations.
Any time you want clarity — a new relationship finding its footing, an old one you're re-evaluating, or after leaving a bad one, when you need to remember what good looks like.
Find out what's going right. Privately.
See also: CrayScore™ explained · SchemerScore™ explained · The science behind Cray